How to Swim
But swimming, like loving, is not just about knowing.
It's about trusting the body more than the waves of the mind.
Consider My Body
“Some may think that this is the kind of essay that only ugly women write.”
The Art of Loving Well
“I’ve begun to appreciate acts of love and moments of pure connection as they happen.”
protegiéndome
"i value time off—and self-love
and what comes along with peace
such as breathing through the clear breeze
sometimes forgetting about my oxygen-thief"
Dare I love my shadows
“If I don’t take the time to fully see myself for who I am, how can I expect someone else to do so?”
Always leaving: as in poetry, so in life
“As a poet, I write of mass Black exodus, ancient memory, unspoiled land and what I mean is that I want somewhere of my own.”
After Birth
“So I decided to give my attitude a switch, / Look at myself every day and give that girl a kiss; / No more over-analyzing the tiny flawed bits, / I’m reminding myself that I’m still the shit!”
More Than Enough
But being me is what brings me peace. / What others think, / Will never give me this ease.
The Monster Underneath Your Bed
“There comes a point when you open your eyes and realize that you are the main character of your story. You realize that you no longer need to succumb to someone else’s narrative, and from there, you begin to live.”
A Letter to My Younger Self
I can’t really give her any advice, but I really feel like I need to talk to her. I need to let go of the burden on my shoulders and talk about how much I’ve changed and how much I’ve lost myself.
Thinking on the Page: “Love”
“I wonder if being in a romantic relationship is the unquestioned prerequisite to being accepted-then-respected in most societies. It's almost to say that if you're "with" someone, you must somehow be lovable, or at least likable.”
The Waves That Guided Me to Your Refuge
You are the Most Kind and Most Merciful, bountiful with forgiveness; Your Illuminating Light floated me back up towards the glimmer of shimmering sun rays peeking through…
I Was a Villain
I felt like I was a superhero being able to help everyone. But I wasn’t a superhero…
Coming Home To Me
I’m relearning how to love and honor my inner voice and spirit; I’m reprogramming the negative thought patterns and destructive self-talk that triggers self-doubt to rear it’s ugly head.
"I need to see my own beauty and to continue to be reminded that I am enough, that I am worthy of love without effort, that I am beautiful, that the texture of my hair and that the shape of my curves, the size of my lips, the color of my skin, and the feelings that I have are all worthy and okay."
— Tracee Ellis Ross